All That Matters
What I Learned While Looking for God in America
Are there paths to God hiding in plain sight?
In 2014, Tom Soma left his job, sold his home, and set out from Portland, Oregon, in his ten-year-old, twenty-one-foot RV to ask people across America two questions:
- How do you experience the Divine?
- How does that encounter color your life?
From their answers, he hoped to address a third question: Can the ways we connect with God help transform how we engage with each other and the earth?
Part classic road narrative, part spiritual memoir, and part open-hearted inquiry into what unites us, All That Matters follows Soma over 53 weeks and more than 26,000 miles as he speaks with hundreds of people, friends and strangers alike, who share their insights into one of humanity’s most intriguing mysteries: the essence of our connection with whatever created us.
Along the way, Soma probes not for what people had learned or believed but what they’d lived and felt—their direct experience of divinity. And what he discovers is both surprising and hopeful.
Warmly written, humorous, and humane, Soma’s journey reveals that though the word “God” often divides us, the experience of what really matters does not.
All That Matters is an invitation to look more closely at the world around us and to find the divinity within—right where it has always been.
Tom Soma
Tom Soma is a writer, poet, and longtime nonprofit leader whose articles have appeared in PORTLAND magazine, The Oregonian, Full-Time Dads, Mothering, and Spirituality & Health. He is also the author of No Small Thing—and Other Periodic Musings, a collection of essays set at the Ronald McDonald House, and The Secret Ingredient—More Musings from the Ronald McDonald Houses, published by NewSouth Books.
His professional career began with a year of volunteer service at a legal clinic, followed by two years caring for emotionally disturbed children in a residential treatment center. He later worked in higher education fundraising at the University of Portland and Lewis & Clark College.
Between those roles, he devoted eight years to part-time writing and the full-time parenting of his three daughters, who initially provided rich inspiration and later rewarded him with five grandchildren. In 1999, he was appointed executive director of Ronald McDonald House Charities® of Oregon and Southwest Washington, which he led for fifteen years. From 2016 to 2019, he directed Children’s Center in Oregon City, Oregon, a child abuse intervention center.
A Michigan native and 1979 graduate of the University of Notre Dame, he lived in Portland, Oregon, for forty-two years before moving with his wife to St. Petersburg, Florida, in 2021.







