Uncaged
A Good Girl’s Journey to Reinvention
Uncaged: A Good Girl’s Journey to Reinvention is a story about the choices we make, the cages we build for ourselves, and how we can break free.
From the quiet suburbs of Switzerland to the warm, familial settings of Greece and beyond, Uncaged takes readers inside a deeply personal journey from toxicity and heartbreak to self-discovery and transformation. Raised in a traditional Greek family, Katia enters the world with deeply ingrained beliefs about what it means to be a “good girl,” forced to put others’ needs and desires above her own, while checking all the boxes of societal approval—academic excellence, a promising career, a picture-perfect marriage. Yet, despite her many accomplishments, even strong-willed Katia struggles to fully love and accept herself, and progressively loses touch with her true essence, which deep down is playful, adventurous, and free-spirited.
As a result of the false labels (“selfish”) and other painful childhood baggage she carries, Katia often expresses the outrage of an adolescent who wasn’t permitted to feel her anger—or even her grief. But as her story unfolds, the hardworking defense analyst learns (the hard way) to take risks and make mistakes, and finally, to embrace her true calling and a more authentic life.
From rebelliously riding away on a lover’s Harley to overcoming an embittered divorce to grieving the loss of her beloved father to finally embracing healthy love—Katia’s story is raw, honest, vulnerable, and strong.
Uncaged proves that we can change, risk, forgive, and grow. We can find genuine meaning and purpose. We can carve out life on our own terms. We can create home and belonging—and even love—no matter where in the world we find ourselves.
Katia Vlachos
Katia Vlachos is a reinvention coach, author, and speaker committed to helping individuals navigate life transitions and break free from social conditioning. With a master’s from the Harvard Kennedy School and a PhD from the RAND Graduate School, Katia began her career as a policy analyst. Her own reinvention journey led to the publication of A Great Move: Surviving and Thriving in Your Expat Assignment, recognized as a Financial Times Business Book of the Month (June 2018). Featured in the New York Times, Harvard Business Review, and more, Katia’s insights on overcoming limitations, embracing bold choices, and reclaiming one’s authentic self have resonated on stages and
podcasts worldwide. Whether through her writing, transformative retreats, or one-on-one coaching, she empowers women to chart their own ambitious course toward a more fulfilling, uncaged life. Katia lives in Zurich, Switzerland, with her family.